100+ things nobody tells you to do after the wedding
Everything You Need After "I Do."
Name changes, insurance, beneficiaries, and your first real money conversations — walked through in order, with pockets for the documents themselves.
Not a checklist you finish. A system you keep.
The wedding ends. The paperwork starts.
Your passport still has your maiden name. Your health insurance has a 30-day window you didn’t know about. Your 401(k) still lists your mom as beneficiary.
Nobody hands you the list. So it comes at you one panicked search at a time, for a year.
The Vow Vault is that list. In order.
✔ The Name Change Sequence — every account in order, including the one everyone forgets
✔ The Money Conversation Worksheet — the questions couples skip and regret
✔ Health Coverage Decisions — what to change, and the deadline you’re already inside of
✔ The Beneficiary Update Checklist — ten minutes that protects everything you just built.
✔ Document Pockets — marriage certificate, auto titles, birth certificates, along with four working folders.
✔ The Memory Capsule — the part that isn’t admin at all
Inside The Vault
A 56 page linen wrapped binder with room for the documents themselves, plus digital resources you reach by scanning a code on the page you’re already on.
• Every name change step, in the order they have to happen
• State specific requirements, current for where you live
• A guided money conversation, already written for you
• Beneficiary and insurance checklists
• Sleeves for the certificates, licenses, and forms.
Nobody Made This. So We Did.
The wedding ended. The paperwork didn’t. Marriage certificates, name changes, insurance updates, beneficiary forms — all at once, and nothing built for any of it.
I’m an organized person. I still had three different “special safe places” and couldn’t reliably find my own documents in any of them.
So we built the thing we needed: one place that holds the paperwork, the checklists, and the keepsakes, in the order you’ll actually need them.
✓ Keeps important documents together
✓ Helps prevent missed steps after marriage
✓ Creates a keepsake you'll use for years
